The Purpose Behind the Problems & Pressure

“As the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him.” 2 Corinthians 3:18 (TLB)

There’s nothing in my life that I can’t learn from if I'll just respond with the right attitude.

Instead of saying, “God, why is this happening to me?’ I need to learn to say, “God, what do you want me to learn from this?” Every situation in life will either make me bitter or better. It’s my choice—because I can choose how I respond to it.

Every problem has a purpose, and the purpose is to help me grow up spiritually and become more like Jesus Christ.

Philippians 2:5 says, “In your lives you must think and act like Christ Jesus” (ICB). If one of God’s purposes for my life is to grow up spiritually and to become like Jesus, then what is Jesus like?

The Bible calls Jesus’ character the fruit of the Spirit, which is “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23 GW). These are the qualities God wants to build in my life. He wants my life to be overflowing with love, joy, peace, and all of these things.

God often produces these qualities in my life by putting me in the exact opposite situation.

He teaches me how to love by putting me around unloving people. It’s easy to love people who are cool, people who are like me, people I get along with. But God will put me around seemingly unlovable people to show me what his unconditional love looks like.

He’ll teach me joy not by giving me everything I want but by showing me in adversity and grief that he is still enough.

He doesn’t teach me peace when I'm out fishing by the lake or wherever I choose to rest and relax. God teaches me real peace in the middle of chaos, when everything in my life is falling apart and I learn to trust him more.

God teaches us patience in traffic jams and waiting rooms and the thousand different ways we have to wait in life.

Becoming like Christ is a lifelong journey. The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 3:18 in The Living Bible paraphrase, “As the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him.” God’s Spirit will be working on me the rest of my life to help me grow up spiritually.

When he uses ways to help me grow up that seem uncomfortable or inconvenient, remember that they are producing in me God’s best fruit.

Why does adversity often teach us better than prosperity? For me, it sticks better because I have to overcome something and rely on God to provide.

What do I think God wants me to do when I'm faced with adversity and I can’t see how God is using it for good in my life? For me, he wants me to trust him with the outcome. This doesn't mean I sit by idly, but I take the next step ahead of me, and not look for the entire road map.

In Summary:

This text focuses on spiritual growth as an intentional process of character transformation into the likeness of Jesus Christ, specifically through the cultivation of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Rather than viewing life's hardships, uncomfortable situations, or difficult people as meaningless obstacles, the passage re-frames adversity as God's deliberate classroom for developing love, patience, peace, and self-control. True spiritual maturity is formed precisely when circumstances demand the opposite of those virtues, shifting the fundamental posture of faith from asking "Why is this happening to me?" to "What do you want me to learn from this?" Real transformation is a lifelong journey carried out by the Holy Spirit as I choose active trust and obedience over bitterness.

Bottom Line:

Adversity is not an interruption to my growth, but the primary environment God uses to shape Christlike character when you choose obedience and trust over bitterness.

Next Step:

When I encounter my next point of friction, delay, or difficult interaction today, pause immediately before reacting and replace the question "Why is this happening?" with "What virtue is this circumstance calling me to practice?" Take the single immediate, disciplined action that reflects Christlike character in that exact moment, trusting God with the broader outcome rather than waiting for the entire road map.