This Is God’s Will: Give Thanks

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIV)

In many cultures around the world, people set aside certain days or seasons for giving thanks.  But God wants you to be intentional about your thankfulness every day. He wants you to develop this spiritual habit, one that is reflected in the life of a faithful follower of Jesus. Because the closer you get to Jesus, the more deeply you understand God’s love, and the more grateful you’re going to be.

What does it mean to be radically grateful?

The Bible says in 1 Thessalonians 5:18, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (NIV). In every circumstance give thanks—that’s radical gratitude.

How can I be thankful even in difficult circumstances? I can thank God in every circumstance because he is in control. He can bring good out of evil. He can turn around the worst mistakes I’ve made. No matter what happens, God isn’t going to stop loving me.

I can find a hundred things to be thankful for in any circumstance, even when the circumstance stinks.

Radical gratitude—being thankful in all circumstances—is God’s will because it creates fellowship. What is meant by that? Gratitude always builds deeper relationships between myself and other people and between myself and God.

If I want to get closer to someone, start expressing gratitude to that person. Maybe I'm feeling distant from my  spouse. I've lost that spark because I stopped doing the things that created the spark early on—and now I take her for granted. Start doing what I did when we were dating: Express gratitude. Write little notes of kindness and encouragement. Call or text during the day, just to tell your spouse that I'm thankful for her.

Do I want to build better connection in my small group? Don’t just go to my gathering. During the week, contact the people in my group. Say, “I’m grateful for you, and here’s why.” I'll find that the more grateful I am for my group, the more my group will bond—and the more I’ll grow in radical gratitude.

Let us “enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations” (Psalm 100:4-5 NIV).

In Summary:

This text unpacks the concept of "radical gratitude" based on 1 Thessalonians 5:18, emphasizing that thankfulness is an everyday spiritual habit rather than a seasonal obligation. Practicing radical gratitude requires giving thanks in all circumstances—not necessarily for the difficult situation itself, but in it, anchoring one's perspective in God's sovereignty, enduring love, and ability to redeem any situation. Furthermore, the passage highlights gratitude as a powerful relational catalyst; actively expressing appreciation to God and others dismantles apathy, restores intimacy in marriages, strengthens community bonds within small groups, and ultimately fosters sustainable spiritual growth.

Bottom Line:

Radical gratitude is a daily, intentional discipline that anchors me in God's unchanging goodness and actively builds deeper connections with the people around us.

Next Step:

Commit to a disciplined action of daily appreciation to combat taking my closest relationships for granted. For the next seven days, select one specific person each day—such as my spouse, a family member, or a small group peer—and send them a direct, intentional text or note expressing one precise reason I am grateful for who they are or what they do.