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Monday, March 16, 2026

I Can’t Stop God from Loving Me

“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39 (NIV)

The Bible says in Ephesians 1 that, before he laid down the earth’s foundations, God chose me. But he didn’t just choose me. He set his love on me. He made the world because he loves me and wanted a place for his family.

I'm not only chosen. I'm loved.  

Before the earth was created, God settled on me as the focus of his love. I may rarely be focused on God. But God is focused on me all the time. In fact, God can focus on everybody at the same time. Why? Because he’s God.

At every moment of my life, God is focused on me. He sees every high, every low, every good moment, every bad moment, every mountain, every valley, every joy, and every tear. God made me to love me, and he will never stop loving me. 

“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39 NIV).     

I can’t be separated from God's love for two reasons: It’s eternal, and it’s unconditional. God never says, “I love you if . . .” He doesn't say, “I love you because . . .” God says, “I love you . . . period.” God gives me an eternal, unconditional love because God is love.    

God's love for me is not based on what I do but on who he is. It's not based on my performance. It's based on his character. I can spend my whole life trying to make God stop loving me, but I will fail.

There is nothing I can do to make God love me less. And there’s nothing I can do to make God love me more. He loved me enough to create me and set his focus on me. He loved me enough to want to be with me forever, despite my sin against him. He loved me enough to send his Son to save me from my sin.

I'll never find greater love.

In summary:

Romans 8:38-39 serves as the theological climax of Paul’s discourse on the believer’s security, asserting that God’s love is an immutable force that transcends every dimensional, spiritual, and temporal boundary. This passage, paired with the doctrine of election in Ephesians 1, establishes that the believer’s value is rooted in God’s prehistoric intent rather than human performance. Because this love is based entirely on the unchanging character of God rather than the volatile behavior of the individual, it functions as an unbreakable covenant. The primary message is one of absolute spiritual security: your identity as a beloved child of God was settled before creation and is sustained by Christ’s finished work, rendering it immune to any external or internal threat.

Bottom line:

My security in God is not maintained by my grip on Him, but by His relentless, performance-independent hold on me.

Next Steps:

Whenever I feel the urge to "earn" God’s favor through productivity or hide from Him due to failure, consciously pause and recite the reality that His focus on me is based on His character, not my conduct; then, proceed with my responsibilities from a position of rest rather than a quest for validation.

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