Purpose in the Hard Places

“Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.” Psalm 23:4 (NIV)

I may not be in the valley of the shadow of death right now, but I may be in another valley. Valleys are the hard places in my journey, where it’s easy to doubt or overlook God’s goodness. But I can always trust that God walks through the valleys with me. And he’s promised to bring me through to the other side.

Psalm 23:4 says, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me” (NIV).

Here are three truths to remember when I am in the valley:

1. I am not alone. God is with me.
The shadows in life are evidence of the presence of light. How do I deal with a shadow? I turn my back to the shadow and look at the light. Jesus said, “I am the light for the world! Follow me, and you won’t be walking in the dark. You will have the light that gives life” (John 8:12 CEV).

The Bible says that God is light and that in him there is no darkness at all. I need to stop focusing on the dark things that scare me: those bills, health concerns, or worries about children or aging parents. When I move my focus off of my fears, I can focus on the Father.

2. God has a good purpose for my valley.
God can’t do evil. Even when I'm facing problems, conflict, grief, fear, or failure, God is at work, creating good from my valley.

Romans 5:3-5 says, “We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us” (ESV).

3. The reward will last forever.
I'm going to be rewarded for remaining faithful to Christ in the valley of failure, fear, conflict, grief, or trouble. I'll be in heaven less than a minute before thinking, “Why did I worry when I was going through those valleys? God was right there with me all the time, and he was good to me all the time.”

As the Bible says, “For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!” (2 Corinthians 4:17 NLT). 

In Summary:

Psalm 23:4, paired with supporting passages from John, Romans, and 2 Corinthians, offers a powerful perspective on navigating life's difficult seasons, or "valleys." Rather than signaling God’s absence, difficult circumstances present an opportunity to intentionally shift my focus away from fear and back toward His constant presence. These seasonal trials are not meaningless; God uses them intentionally to build character, endurance, and eternal perspective. Ultimately, the text reminds me that darkness is temporary, God's presence is continuous, and the growth forged in the valley carries lasting, eternal value.

Bottom Line:

Valleys are not dead ends, but intentional transit points where shifting my focus to God's presence transforms temporary hardship into lasting character.

Next Step:

Identify the specific "shadow" or source of friction currently drawing my focus—whether related to work, personal goals, or family responsibility—and establish a daily audit habit. Whenever I catch my focus fixating on that stressors, immediately write down one concrete truth about God's presence or purpose in that situation, aligning my identity with dynamic faith rather than passive fear.

The Purpose in the Pause

“I trust the LORD God to save me, and I will wait for him to answer my prayer.” Micah 7:7 (CEV)

The Bible is clear that I’ll go through different seasons in life. One season God talks about over and over is the season of waiting.

But I can trust that while I'm waiting, God is working. A season of waiting doesn’t mean that God has stopped working. In fact, he’s taking me through that season because he’s using the time to work in my circumstances for my good.

The truth is, I'm going to spend much of my life waiting. And so, if I don’t figure out how to trust God while I'm waiting, I'll spend a lot of my life not trusting God.

God is never in a hurry; he’s eternal! And as he’s working, he wants me to learn how to trust him.

I often ask, “When, Lord? When is it going to happen?” And God’s saying something like, “You can trust me with this.”

It’s human nature to say, “Don’t wait! Get things as quickly as I can.” But that goes against God’s blessing in my life—because God’s blessing often comes through times of waiting. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “[God] has set the right time for everything” (GNT).

In a time of waiting, I can be frustrated with how slowly things are happening. We’ve all been there.

There’s a promise in the Bible that not only tells me God is working but also how God is working. I need to claim it while I'm waiting: “I am the LORD, and when it is time, I will make these things happen quickly” (Isaiah 60:22 NCV).

That’s how God worked when he sent Jesus into this world. The world waited thousands of years for him to come the first time. And then he came at just the right moment.

We’ve been waiting 2,000 years now for Jesus to come again. When will that happen? At just the right time—God’s time. That’s when he’s going to return.

You can apply this same truth to my time of waiting. Remember that a delay is not a denial. When I think God is saying, “No,” he may just be saying, “Not yet. Will you keep trusting me through this?”

Micah 7:7 says, “I trust the LORD God to save me, and I will wait for him to answer my prayer” (CEV).

That is the kind of faith God blesses.

In Summary:

Today's study centers on the biblical reality of waiting, utilizing Micah 7:7 to illustrate that waiting is an intentional, God-ordained season rather than a sign of divine inactivity. Human nature naturally resists delays, frequently mistaking a temporary pause for a final denial. However, Scripture emphasizes that God operates on an eternal timeline, working behind the scenes to align circumstances for eventual, rapid breakthrough at the perfect moment. Ultimately, these periods of waiting are designed to shift focus away from a timeline and onto deepening personal trust in God's character and timing.

Bottom Line:

A divine delay is not a denial, but a purposeful season designed to build trust while God actively works out the perfect timing for my circumstances.

Next Step:

Identify one specific area of my life where I am currently experiencing frustration due to a delay, and deliberately shift my daily focus from asking "when" to affirming "who." Practice disciplined action by writing down the specific promise of God's timing from Isaiah 60:22, and review it each morning to align my identity as someone who rests in divine sovereignty rather than forcing independent control.

When I Respond in Love, Great Is My Reward!

“Since we are his children . . . if we share Christ's suffering, we will also share his glory.” Romans 8:17 (GNT)

There are people in my life who drive me crazy. The only way I’m going to be able to face them and return good for evil is to remember my eternal reward.

As part of His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus made this promise that I hold onto: "Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you" (Matthew 5:11-12 NIV).        

When I respond to my enemies like Jesus would, God says I’m right up there with Moses, Abraham, Elijah, and all the great prophets of the Bible. I’m in God's Hall of Fame. I’m in good company.

Maybe I face opposition because of my faith in Jesus Christ. The Living Bible paraphrase reminds me, “These troubles and sufferings of mine are, after all, quite small and won't last very long. Yet this short time of distress will result in God's richest blessing upon me forever and ever!” (2 Corinthians 4:17). God has promised to give me His richest eternal blessings because of the trials and opposition I experience. My pain is temporary, but my payoff will last forever.

“Since I am His child . . . if I share Christ's suffering, I will also share His glory” (Romans 8:17 GNT).

Christ has already experienced everything I suffer on this earth. He suffered abuse, harassment, opposition, criticism, and plots against Him. Because I am God’s child, then, just like I share in Jesus’ suffering, I will also share in His reward in heaven forever.        

I realize what this means: Because I encounter harassment and bullying with humility and generosity and love, I’m going to share in God's glory for eternity.

What an amazing promise and gift for me!

In summary:

The central theme here is the transformative power of an eternal perspective when facing interpersonal conflict and persecution. By anchoring my identity as a child of God, I can transition from seeing "difficult people" as mere nuisances to seeing them as opportunities to align with the character of Christ. Scripture promises that the temporary discomfort of choosing humility, love, and generosity over retaliation is not only observed by God but serves as a prerequisite for sharing in His eternal glory. This shift moves me from a defensive posture to a proactive, "Hall of Fame" mindset where my character is refined through the very opposition that seeks to diminish it.

Bottom Line:

My temporary endurance of unfair treatment is a direct investment in an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs the cost of my current restraint.

Next Step:

Practice "Identity-Based De-escalation" this week: Before engaging with a person who "drives you crazy," pause and silently affirm, “I am a co-heir with Christ; my response is my witness.” By pre-deciding that my reaction is tied to my eternal inheritance rather than their temporary behavior, I maintain disciplined control and ensure my actions align with my future glory rather than my immediate frustration.

Pain Is Often the Price of Growth

“When your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.” James 1:3-4 (NLT)

It's possible to grow during times of bright, fair weather—but you put down deeper roots during the dark days of life.

As a pastor, I’ve heard from countless people who said they had grown more through separation, illness, job loss, or tragedy than they would have otherwise. They recognized how God had used difficulty to draw them closer to him and mature them.

The Bible says it this way: "When your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing" (James 1:3-4 NLT).

Let it grow! When you let God into your problems and don’t push him out, then you’ll develop endurance that will make you ready for anything—strong in character, full and complete.

Pain is the high cost of growth. The old cliché is true: There is no gain without pain. We want the quick solution and the easy fix. We want the pill or the seminar or the book that's going to change everything without involving pain. We want the product that brings maturity without the painful process. But that isn't going to happen!

Theologian J. I. Packer said, “God uses chronic pain and weakness, along with all the other inflictions, as his chisel for sculpting our lives. It deepens our dependence upon Christ for strength each day. And the weaker we feel, the harder we lean, and the harder we lean, the stronger we grow spiritually.”

The very thing that's discouraging you right now is the very thing God is using to develop you right now.       

How was David able to write such beautiful and powerful psalms? Because through all the loneliness, neglect, and injustice he went through as a young shepherd and even as a king, David knew God was with him the whole time. David wrote his most beautiful words in his deepest pain.

There will be growth in the painful parts of life that you will not gain any other way. The process will not make you perfect, but it will move you toward being more like Christ. And if you’ll trust God to keep you and walk with you in your pain, he will develop endurance in you and give you his peace and rest.

In summary:

Growth comes most deeply not in easy seasons but in life’s hardest moments, when pain, loss, and trials test faith and push roots down deeper into God’s strength. James 1:3-4 reminds us that endurance develops through testing, shaping character and moving us toward completeness in Christ. While we often long for quick fixes without pain, true maturity only comes through the refining process of difficulty, where God uses challenges as tools to sculpt us and draw us closer to him. Just as David wrote his most powerful psalms out of seasons of loneliness and hardship, our deepest growth often flows from our hardest experiences. If we choose to lean on God in the midst of struggle, he will grow endurance, deepen dependence, and bring peace, shaping us into who he’s called us to be.

Bottom line:

My deepest growth and strength come through trials—when U trust God in pain, he develops endurance, character, and Christlikeness in me.

My next wisest step:

I should integrate my personal testimony of growth through challenges into my interaction with others. Draft one story from my life where God used pain to grow my endurance, then shape it into something I can share with others.

Delayed, Not Denied: Trusting God’s Perfect Timing

“You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. For, ‘In just a little while, he who is coming will come and will not delay.’” Hebrews 10:36-37 (NIV)

If I'm discouraged because of God’s delay in answering my prayers, understand the delay is not a denial. Just because the answer or the miracle hasn’t come yet doesn’t mean God isn’t going to answer—or that he’s forgotten me or doesn’t care about me. It simply means “not yet”!

Part of becoming spiritually mature is learning the difference between “no” and “not yet,” between a denial and a delay. The Bible tells us, “He who is coming will come and will not delay” (Hebrews 10:37 NIV).

God’s delay may be a test of my patience. Anybody can be patient once. And most people can be patient twice—or even three times. God will test my patience over and over.

Does he do this to see how patient you are? No, he does it so I can see how patient I am. His testing helps me see God’s power at work in me and examines my level of commitment to him.

God tests me also so that I can know he is faithful, even if the answers I seek are delayed.

I may go through difficult times. I may be discouraged because the situation I face seems unmanageable, unreasonable, or unfair.

It may seem unbearable, and inside I'm basically saying, “God, I can’t take it anymore. I just can’t take it anymore!”

But I can. I can stay with it longer because God is with me. He’ll equip me to press on.

Remember, I'm never a failure until I quit. Resist discouragement and finish the race God has set before me.

In summary:

When God delays in answering prayers, it’s not a denial—it’s a test of faith and patience. Learning to distinguish between “no” and “not yet” is part of spiritual growth. Though discouragement may come during difficult or seemingly unfair times, God remains faithful, and His timing is perfect. These delays help reveal my endurance and dependence on Him. I’m not alone; God equips me to keep going. I only fail if I quit—so I must persevere and trust that His promises will be fulfilled in due time.

Bottom line:

God’s delays are not denials—stay patient, trust His timing, and don’t give up, because He is faithful and will fulfill His promises.

Loving Like Jesus, A Love That Never Quits

“Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up.” 1 Corinthians 13:7 (GW)

The same love God offers to me, he wants me to offer to everyone else. It’s not an option or a suggestion. It’s a command: “Now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other” (John 13:34 NLT).

As a follower of Christ, I must love everybody—whether I like them or not—in the same way that Christ loves me. That means I am to accept them completely, love them unconditionally, forgive them totally, and consider them extremely valuable.

Loving others in this way will transform my relationships!

The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:7, “Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up” (GW).

This is how God loves me. God never stops being patient with me. God never stops believing in me. God never stops hoping for the best in my life. God never gives up on me. That’s what God expects me to do with everybody else.

“Love never stops being patient.” That means love extends grace. I need to offer grace to others.

“Love . . . never stops believing.” That means love expresses faith. The people in my life should know that, even if things are strained between us, I will never stop believing in them.

“Love . . . never stops hoping.” That means love expects the best. Are I expecting the best in my marriage, with my daughter, grandsons, or with my coworkers? Or have I settled for less than the best? Have I become pessimistic or cynical when it comes to my relationships?

“Love . . . never gives up.” That means love endures the worst. It means I can look at the other person and say, “You can throw everything at me, but I’m going to keep loving you, no matter what.”

If I want to start loving the people God has placed in my life even better, I can say “Dear God, I admit that I’ve sometimes made a mess in my relationships. They’re complicated and broken, and I’ve often settled for less than the best. They need a transformation! So please begin by changing me.

“Help me to accept others, just as you’ve accepted me. Help me to love others unconditionally, just as you have loved me. Help me to forgive others totally, just as you’ve forgiven me. And help me to value others as much as you value me. Help me to extend grace to and express faith in the people around me. Help me to expect the best in others, and when the worst happens, help me to endure it and to keep on loving them. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

In summary:

God calls me to love others with the same relentless, grace-filled love He shows me—patient, faithful, hopeful, and enduring. According to 1 Corinthians 13:7, true love never gives up, never loses faith, never stops hoping, and never quits—and this is exactly how God loves me. As a follower of Christ, I'm commanded to extend that same love to everyone, whether I like them or not: accepting completely, loving unconditionally, forgiving totally, and valuing deeply. When I embrace this kind of love, it transforms my relationships, beginning with a prayer for God to change my own heart so I can love others as He loves me.

When I let God transform my heart, I can extend grace, endure in love, and build relationships that reflect His unconditional love.

Fix My Thoughts, Finding My Strength

“Think about Jesus’ example. He held on while wicked people were doing evil things to him. So do not get tired and stop trying.” Hebrews 12:3 (NCV)

God wants me to be healthy in every area of my life—mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. To be strong mentally, I must focus my mind on the right things. Three things I can think about to improve my mental health.

Think about Jesus.
You’ve heard the saying, “You become what you think about most.” If I want to become more like Jesus, I have to focus my thoughts on him.

Hebrews 12:3 says, “Think about Jesus’ example. He held on while wicked people were doing evil things to him. So do not get tired and stop trying” (NCV).

Think about others.
The Bible says in Philippians 2:4, “Don’t just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and in what they are doing” (TLB).

This is very countercultural. Our world teaches us to think about ourselves and nobody else. But Jesus was countercultural, and when I think like him, I'll more naturally think of others.

Think about eternity.
“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him” (1 Corinthians 2:9 NLT). When I start focusing on truths like that, all of my problems seem inferior compared to the glory, joy, and pleasure of the things awaiting you in eternity.

My mind is my greatest asset and also my fiercest battleground. I can ask God to help me make the choice every day to feed on his Word, free my mind of destructive thoughts, and fill my mind with Jesus, others, and eternity. Then I'll be well-equipped to fight the battles in my mind.

In summary:

Hebrews 12:3 reminds me to think about Jesus’ perseverance through suffering so I don’t grow weary or give up. God desires me to be healthy in every way, and a strong, healthy mind comes from focusing on the right things. To improve my mental health, I should fix my thoughts on Jesus—becoming more like Him through reflection on His example, think of others instead of just myself—embracing the selfless mindset of Christ, and think about eternity—gaining perspective and hope beyond any present struggles. By choosing daily to focus on these truths and asking God to renew my mind, I equip myself to overcome the mental battles I'll face.

Love Others the Way God Loves You

“Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up.” 1 Corinthians 13:7 (GW)

The same love that God gives to me, he wants me to offer to everyone I meet. It’s not an option or a suggestion. It’s a command from Jesus himself: “Now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other” (John 13:34 NLT).

As a follower of Christ, I must love everybody—whether I like them or not—in the same way that Christ loves me. That means I am to love them unconditionally, forgive them totally, and consider them extremely valuable.

Loving others in this way will transform relationships!

The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:7, “Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up” (GW).

This is how God loves me. God never stops being patient with me. God never stops believing in me. God never stops hoping for the best in my life. God never gives up on me. And that’s what God wants me to do with everybody else.

“Love never stops being patient.” That means love extends grace. I need to offer grace to others.

“Love never stops believing.” That means it expresses faith. I tell someone, “Even though we’re having a tough time, I will never stop believing in you.”

“Love never stops hoping.” That means love expects the best. Am I expecting the best in my relationships, or have I settled for less than the best?

“Love never gives up.” That means love endures the worst. It means I can look at the other person and say, “You can throw everything at me, but I’m going to keep loving you, no matter what.”

To see transformation in relationships today, I can pray this:

“Dear God, I admit that I have made a mess in my relationships. They’re complicated and broken, and I’ve often settled for less than the best. They need a transformation! I’d like you to begin by changing me. Deliver me from my fears, because I can see how they make me distant and defensive and even demanding. Today and every day from now on, I want to surrender my heart to you. I want to learn to live my life in your love and be filled with your love.

“Help me to accept others, just as you’ve accepted me. Help me to love others unconditionally, just as you have loved me. Help me to forgive others totally, just as you’ve forgiven me. And help me to value others as much as you value me. Help me to extend grace to and express faith in the people around me. Help me to expect the best in others, and help me to endure the worst when it happens. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

In summary:

True love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:7, is patient, faithful, hopeful, and enduring—and this is the same kind of love God shows us and calls us to extend to others. Jesus commands us to love others as he has loved us: unconditionally, forgiving fully, and recognizing their value. Living out this kind of love transforms relationships, requiring us to extend grace, believe in others, hope for the best, and persevere through difficulties. By surrendering my heart to God and allowing his love to fill and guide me, I can bring healing and renewal to even the most broken relationships.

Following Jesus Means Loving Everyone

In 1 Corinthians 13:7 I read, “Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up."(GW)

As a follower of Christ, I must love everybody in the same way that Christ loves me. That means I am to accept them completely, love them unconditionally, forgive them totally, and consider them extremely valuable, whether I like them or not.

It’s not an option or a suggestion. It’s a command: “Now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other” (John 13:34 NLT).

Loving others in this way will transform my relationships!

The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:7, “Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up” (GW).

This is how God loves me. He never stops being patient with me. He never stops believing in me. He never stops hoping for the best in my life. He never gives up on me. And God wants me to love others the same way.

Love never stops being patient. Love extends grace. I can offer grace to others.

Love never stops believing. Love expresses faith. Love allows me to say, “Even though we’re having a tough time, I will never stop believing in you.”

Love never stops hoping. Love expects the best. Am I expecting the best in my primary relationships, or have I settled for less than best?

Love never gives up. Love endures the worst. With love, I can say, “You can throw everything at me, but I’m going to keep loving you, no matter what.”

To start transforming my relationships today, I pray: “Dear God, I admit that I have made a mess in my relationships. They’re complicated and broken, and I’ve often settled for less than best. They need a transformation. I want you to begin by changing me. Deliver me from my fears, because I can see how they make me distant, defensive, and even demanding. Today, and every day from now on, I want to surrender my heart to you. I want to learn to live my life dwelling in and filled with your love.

“Help me to accept others, just as you’ve accepted me. Help me to love others unconditionally, just as you have loved me. Help me to forgive others totally, just as you’ve forgiven me. And help me to value others as much as you value me. Help me to extend grace to and express faith in the people around me. Help me to expect the best in others, and when the worst happens, help me to endure it with grace. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

In summary, Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, and never gives up. As a follower of Christ, I must love everybody in the same way that Christ loves me. That means I am to accept them completely, love them unconditionally, forgive them totally, and consider them extremely valuable, whether I like them or not. It’s not an option or a suggestion. It’s a command. Loving others in this way will transform my relationships! This is how God loves me. He never stops being patient, never stops believing in me. He never stops hoping for the best in my life. He never gives up on me. And God wants me to love others the same way. Love never stops being patient. Love extends grace. I can offer grace. Love never stops believing. Love expresses faith. Love allows me to say, “Even though we’re having a tough time, I will never stop believing in you.” Love never stops hoping. Love expects the best. Love never gives up. Love endures the worst. To start transforming my relationships, pray: “Dear God, I admit that I have made a mess. They’re complicated and broken. They need a transformation. Begin by changing me. Deliver me from my fears. I want to surrender my heart to you. I want to learn to live my life dwelling in and filled with your love. Help me to accept others, just as you’ve accepted me. Help me to love others unconditionally, just as you have loved me. Help me to forgive others totally, just as you’ve forgiven me. And help me to value others as much as you value me. Help me to extend grace to and express faith in the people around me. Help me to expect the best in others, and when the worst happens, help me to endure it with grace.”

Society confuses love and lust. Unlike lust, God's kind of love is directed toward others, not inward toward ourselves. It is utterly unselfish. This kind of love goes against my natural inclination. It is impossible to have this love unless God helps me set aside my own desires so that I can love and not expect anything in return. The more I become like Christ, the more love I will show others.  

God Is Never in a Hurry

In James 1:4 I read, “Don’t try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it (troubles that test your faith, letting your endurance grow), do its work so you become mature and well-developed." (The Message)

I need to be patient with myself and with God.

God’s timetable is rarely the same as mine. I’m often in a hurry, but God isn’t. It can be frustrating when it feels like the progress I’m making is slow.

But remember this: God is never in a hurry, but he is always on time. He will use my entire lifetime to prepare me for my role in eternity.

The Bible is filled with examples of how God uses a long process to develop character, especially in leaders. He took 80 years to prepare Moses, including 40 in the wilderness. For those 14,600 wilderness days, Moses kept waiting and wondering, “Is it time?” But God kept saying, “Not yet.”

Great souls are grown through struggles, storms, and seasons of suffering. Be patient with the process. James advised, “Don’t try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed” (James 1:4 The Message).

Don’t get discouraged. When Habakkuk became depressed because he didn’t think God was acting quickly enough, God said: “These things I plan won’t happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!” (Habakkuk 2:3 TLB).

Remember how far I’ve come, not just how far I have to go. I’m not where I want to be, but neither am I where I used to be.

Years ago people wore a popular button with the letters PBPGINFWMY. It stood for “Please be patient. God is not finished with me yet.”

God isn’t finished with me. I need to be patient with him and with myself. And keep on moving forward. Even the snail reached the ark by persevering!

In summary, I should not try to get out of anything prematurely. Let the troubles that test my faith and my endurance grow, and do its work, so that I become mature and well-developed. To do this I need to be patient with myself and with God. What I’m learning is that God’s timetable is rarely the same as mine. I’m often in a hurry, but God is not. God’s timetable is always on time. He will use my entire lifetime to prepare me for my role he has for me in eternity. There are many stories and examples in the Bible where I see that great souls are grown through the struggles, storms, and seasons of suffering. So I need to learn to be patient with the process and not become discouraged. I need to bring to mind how far I’ve come, not just how far I have to go. I may not be where I want to be, but neither am I where I used to be. So God isn’t finished with me yet. I need to be patient with him and with myself. And keep on moving forward. 

In addition, I can't really know the depth of my character until I see how I react under pressure. It is easy to be kind when everything is going well, but can I still be kind when others are treating me unfairly?  God wants to make me mature and complete, not to keep me from pain. Instead of complaining about my struggles, I should see them as opportunities for growth.

Father, thank you for Your Word and Jesus as my savior and example. You want me and I need you in my life. Please give me Your strength for today and remind me in little ways that I can always believe in, have faith in and can trust you in everything. This includes being the authority for my life, the source of my self-worth and my hope for the future. You have my best interests in mind. So I ask you to help me to embrace the way you’ve made me; my gifting and passions. Help me to serve and fulfill the mission you have in mind for me. 

Thank you God for promising to be with me in rough times. I need your help in solving problems in my life or the strength to endure them. Allow me to be patient, for I know you won't leave me alone in my problems; you stay close to me and help me grow.

Today, I ask you for wisdom and guidance for my day, my work, my leadership, my interactions with others, doing well and making a difference in my new job.  I pray all these things through you Son Jesus’ name, Amen.