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Thursday, November 2, 2023

Why I Need Others During Tough Times

In Philippians 1:19 it says, “Because you are praying for me and the Spirit of Jesus Christ is helping me, I know this trouble will bring my freedom.” (NCV)


When I experience setbacks, my most common response is my worst response: I want to withdraw, to build a wall around myself, to push people away.


But that’s the last thing I should do.


When setbacks leave my faith weak, I need other people to trust God for me. I need a community to help support me.


When Job lost his family, finances, and health, it was a devastating setback—just as it would have been for anyone.


But here’s what one of Job’s friends told him: “Don’t let your anger and the pain you endured make you sneer at God . . . Others have praised God for what he has done, so join with them” (Job 36:18, 24 CEV).


That’s great advice. When I’m in the midst of troubles, don’t get bitter. Join with others who can pray with, worship with, and support me.


Where do I find that kind of support?


First, join with others for worship at a local church. Worshiping with other people will give me a new perspective on my setbacks.


Second, get involved in some kind of small group Bible study. Most churches are too big to build relationships just through attending worship services. I need a group of 10 to 12 people to gather with, not only to study the Bible, but also to share my pain and pray together.


I may not find a comeback on my own. I need God’s people to build me up and help me focus on God.


Gathering with others will be a huge step toward my comeback. Just ask Paul. As he sat in a Roman prison, Paul wrote this about the support of other Christians: “Because you are praying for me and the Spirit of Jesus Christ is helping me, I know this trouble will bring my freedom” (Philippians 1:19 NCV).


With the support and prayers of God’s people, my setback is only temporary. My best days are ahead. 

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